Now, I ain't saying this to be cruel, but please understand me when I say, the manner of man that'd get angry with you for trying in your own way to look out for them ain't exactly the healthiest sort to be around. And all feelings beside, no one ought to be putting you in a position of feeling guilty for caring.
( whether that's the case here or not, he's sayin' it anyhow. he only has the women of his era to go on, an' he knows a fair few women who would be. )
I don't think he's had any healthy relationships. I don't think he knows what they're really like. He was doing a lot better, and now it's like this threw him backward.
I hate to say it, Kate, because Lord knows I understand what it's like, but... you can't take on the responsibility of being a man's keeper. It'll break your heart.
I can't rightly say. But you're a sweet gal with a compassionate heart, and it is a concern I harbor for you.
( lord knows he's aware how easy it is to lose yourself in tendin' to others. break your heart on the rocks of their hurt an' upset. he's done it more than once himself, an' picked up the pieces after the fact. )
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Date: 2020-02-13 03:46 pm (UTC)[Which is one thing that drives Kate nuts about the whole family, really. Secrets for the sake of secrets, and an obsession with never looking weak.]
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Date: 2020-02-13 07:02 pm (UTC)Now, I ain't saying this to be cruel, but please understand me when I say, the manner of man that'd get angry with you for trying in your own way to look out for them ain't exactly the healthiest sort to be around. And all feelings beside, no one ought to be putting you in a position of feeling guilty for caring.
( whether that's the case here or not, he's sayin' it anyhow. he only has the women of his era to go on, an' he knows a fair few women who would be. )
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Date: 2020-02-13 07:07 pm (UTC)You have no idea. The entire family screams emotional disfunction.
Don't worry. It's not cruel of you to say.
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Date: 2020-02-15 08:54 pm (UTC)Do you think this fella is a danger to you if his anger's unchecked?
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Date: 2020-02-15 11:30 pm (UTC)I just never know how to get through to him, and I'm starting to think I never will
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Date: 2020-02-21 03:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-02-21 04:06 am (UTC)He was doing a lot better, and now it's like this threw him backward.
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Date: 2020-02-22 03:59 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-02-22 06:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-02-23 12:16 am (UTC)( lord knows he's aware how easy it is to lose yourself in tendin' to others. break your heart on the rocks of their hurt an' upset. he's done it more than once himself, an' picked up the pieces after the fact. )
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Date: 2020-02-23 04:23 am (UTC)So what do you think the line is?
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Date: 2020-02-24 02:54 am (UTC)